Delinquency Juvenile Or Delinquency Parent
Lately, more and more widespread phenomenon of juvenile delinquency. Even this has been happening all along. The expert psychologist always peeling problem that never was inexhaustible. Juvenile Delinquency, like a black circle that never end. Connect connects from time to time, from time to time, from year to year and even from day to day more complicated. Problem teen acquaintance is a complex problem occurs in various cities in Indonesia. In line with the current modernization and growing technology, the current relationship between the major cities and regions semkain smoothly, quickly and easily. World of increasingly sophisticated technology, as well as ease in knowing the information in various media, on the other hand also carries a considerable negative impact extends in various walks of life.
Juvenile delinquency is usually done by teenagers who failed in his soul developmental processes, both during adolescence and in early childhood. Childhood and adolescence lasts so short, the physical, psychological, and emotional so quickly. Psychologically, juvenile delinquency is a manifestation of these conflicts are not resolved properly in childhood and adolescent offenders. Often found that there was trauma in her past, rude and unpleasant treatment of the environment, as well as trauma to the environmental conditions, such as economic conditions which made him feel inferior.
Cope with juvenile delinquency, teenage means rearranges emotions were torn apart. Damaged emotions and feelings because they feel rejected by family, parents, friends, and the environment since childhood, and the failure of the mental development of these adolescents. Traumas in her life to be resolved, these conflicts must be resolved psychological hang, and they should be given a different environment than the previous environment. The question is: who is it all work? Did the parents? While the parents are too dizzy to think about work and other living expenses. Was his brother? They also have their own problems, they might even have the same problem. Did the government? Or who? Not easy to answer. However, providing a good environment from an early age, along with an understanding of the development of our children properly, will help reduce juvenile delinquency. At least not increase the number of cases. "(Source Whandi.net / 1 jan 1970).
Delinquency, is one of the child? or parents? Because there are many parents who can not act as a parent should. They simply provide the materials and the means and facilities for the child without thinking of his inner needs. Parents also often requires a lot of things but forget to give a good example for the child. Actually we are forgetting something when talking about juvenile delinquency, the law of causality. Because, of juvenile delinquency is always crystallized into an external environment that is rarely noticed closest of environmental factors in this case the teen's parents. We always considered that many cases of juvenile delinquency due to unfavorable social environment, such as the influence of friends is not correct, the influence of mass media, to the weakness of one's faith.
When we talk about faith, we questioned the value and usually forget something, namely the influence of parents. Educated parents who either could be a major factor of the onset of delinquency sosiopsikologis yourself a teenager. Moreover, if the case of negative attacks the parents of the teenagers, such as infidelity, divorce, division of property and Gono-gini. Maybe we need to take a new term, parental delinquency.
Parents, often forget that his behavior resulted in her children. Because life is not separated from contek-ever cheating behavior. It could also be because there is the omission of the behaviors that lead to error, so that one becomes a habit. Parents should not expect their children to be good, if the parents themselves have to be good. Generasai conscience actually want to appeal â € œJangan teach us to cheat, do not teach us to talk dirty, dishonest, lazy learning, worship lazy, too fond of treasure belebihan and forget the Creator, namely Allah.â €?
This paper tries to invite contemplation for us as parents, that delinquency is not always synonymous with youth, but just a lot of mischief done by the parents (at home, in society and in government) who eventually also became the inspiration for naughty teenagers. Sad indeed! (Source O. Solihin)
Juvenile's parents in family ties
Examples such as:
Prefer to speak harshly, like blasphemy or cursing, teach children to fight as child bullied others, like to hurt the child physically and psychologically, smoking casually in front of children, dl (moral issues).
Ignore the implementation of Shari'a, such as prayer, we are also a lot of parents who neglect prayers, neglect of prayer, not even pray, let the girls do not close the genitals, let the children mix freely (courtship), let their children drink hardware, etc..
Juvenile's parents in the community
Examples such as:
Create an atmosphere that is not productive (their fathers), for example the morning, afternoon and evening gaple like to hang out while playing, or play chess, although not made of money, this is the same meaning does not maintain self-respect, let alone the honor of his family (wife and children son)? While the mothers get together with like berghibah or defamatory, spending money with a consumptive lifestyle that is shopping at the mall or supermarket, luxury lifestyle.
Provides a means of disobedience, for example, be a drug dealer, so bookies, providing a place of entertainment (discos).
Educators are negligent, we can see at school or in college, but the institution is a safe place to gain knowledge or learning, but in reality, many educators are giving a bad example to their students, for example, perform immoral acts, mistreat their students physically, to sell the material or knowledge for the benefit of education are sinning.
Being the owner of the mass media (both print and electronic: newspapers, magazines, tabloids, radio, television, and internet) that â € ~ hobiâ € ™ featuring readings, images and spectacle that corrupts (pornography, violence, and sex) are refuge in the name of the business.
Juvenile's parents in government
Examples such as:
Like corruption, take a drive up the cost of education policy, raise fuel prices, high cost of health care, like making promises but then forget about it, like doing extortion or bribery.
Like to perpetuate disobedience, gave permission for the business of prostitution / brothels, gambling, where discotheques, liquor factory, on the pretext of its revenue.
Blind eye to the problem that caused the business of prostitution, gambling, drugs, liquor circulation, discos, etc..
Applying the rules of life that is not true and good, that is capitalism, secularism (including socialism and communism).
Let us describe items advice or the advice that we give as a parent to our children when we do and not do it:
We prohibit our children roughly speaking, when we used to say harsh words to our children.
We forbid our children to fight or light hand, but we often persecute them our children physically, we like to fight in front of our children, like fist fights in the legislature buildings respectable forum when in session because they do not agree, that the witness our children live on television.
We forbid our children to lie or be honest, but how many lies that we create for our children.
We prohibit our children taking drugs, even though we ourselves are the users and drug dealers themselves.
We forbid our children to mix freely or courting, when we ourselves are doing the same thing to mix freely in the environment both communities, as well as office environments known as cheating.
We prohibit our children drinking and gambling, but we are bookies and factory owners and menuman hard drinker and gambler.
We forbid our children to smoke, but dirikita have often burn the money, with the smoke in front of their eyes, and we also sell cigarettes and tobacco factory owner.
We get upset when our children do not pray, or worship, but we prefer not even fulfill the obligation neglect prayer.
We urge that our children do not consume pornography impressions, but dirikita are watching, reading, accessing pornographic sites, even we who have the print media, writers, media buying pornography.
We forbid our children to watch television continuously, when we consume the most major broadcast television to no sleep.
We often advise our children not to berghibah or slander other people, but who likes berghibah dirikitalah and defame it.
We get upset when children know and we often hang out at night, but we also do the same thing, sometimes a new dawn of time to go home.
We advise our children to be diligent in school, but we are too lazy to work, often absent from the office.
We complain about why our children are lazy to read, but we also very rarely have a habit of reading.
We often teach our children they do not fight for his parents, when we used to be like our parents' fighting.
We know our children get upset when they steal, but we often steal state money, or often get a fortune that is not kosher.
